How can you help someone after a life-changing injury? Mark Chilutti gives a few examples of what to say to someone after a life-changing injury, such as an SCI or brain injury.
“…having love and support from family members and friends while in the hospital goes a long way to help someone recover.”
“Thank You For Letting Me Come Visit”
Mark says that he found statements like “Thank you for letting me come visit” much more appealing than having visitors comment on his appearance. “I came to understand pretty quickly that people felt much better after they saw me and knew that I was okay. Using this phrase is much better than saying, “You look great,” or “I had no idea what to expect when I was coming to see you,” he says.
“Is There Something I Can Bring You?”
Mark states he really enjoyed when a visitor asked if he needed anything prior to their arrival. He says there were times when he needed or wanted small things and this gesture from visitors was very helpful.
“Take a genuine interest in what they are doing and learning.”
“Tell Me About Your Therapy.”
The majority of a patient’s day in the hospital after a serious injury is spent in therapy. Mark suggests showing interest in a person’s therapy to show that you care about their recovery.
“Is There Anything I Can Do For Your Family?”
“A traumatic injury or illness doesn’t just affect the person injured; it affects the entire family,” says Mark. Mark states the biggest way his friends helped him during his stay in the hospital was coming to visit him at night. His wife was then able to take the night off and go home and rest.
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