Kids with Disabilities, Parenting

A Son's Paralysis Doesn't Slow Him Down

In 2005, 16-year-old Matthew sustained injuries in a motorcycle accident that left him paralyzed. Matthew’s mother, Angela, reflects on Matthew’s progress since his accident.

paraplegic man drives a car with his wheelchair in the passenger seat

Angela recalls that in 2009, Matthew was determined to earn his associate degree post-injury. He had developed a pressure sore, but opted to finish his degree before having flap surgery to repair the wound. 

Angela describes the subsequent victories and milestones Matthew has achieved since his injury. “I look back at how far he has come – from trying to remember the three words the doctor would give him to trying to sit up without falling over.” She credits Matthew’s doctors and hospital staff with reassuring her and urging her to remain optimistic throughout the adjustment period.  

“There have been many trials and tribulations, but he never gave up!”

One of Matthew’s impressive accomplishments is starting a non-profit organization to help other people living with disabilities. Quite fittingly, his organization’s motto is: “Quitting is never an option.”

After obtaining his bachelor’s degree, Matthew continued to law school. While there, he interned for 32-40 hours each week in a public defender’s office more than 30 miles from home. Although school, work, and an active social life occupied most of Matthew’s time, he still found time to mentor underprivileged kids in his area, and despite his busy schedule, he always made time for his non-profit’s website. 

Matthew’s deliberation and persistence recently paid off, when he earned his law degree from Mercer University. Angela knows Matthew won’t slow down anytime soon, and that a bright future awaits him.

“There are no boundaries for him … he has a purpose, and there is no doubt in my mind that he will be an asset wherever he may land.”

Curated By: Denile Doyle

Source: Shepherd Center