Jarene was born six week premature, and when doctors told her mother, Sally, that Jarene was unable to swallow, Sally admits she was initially shocked, and didn’t fully understand all the implications of this statement.
From the moment Jarene was born, her family began adapting to her needs. “From day one, she couldn’t eat orally,” says Sally of her daughter. Even Jarene’s own secretions pose a danger as she could potentially choke on them. “The early days were really hard,” shares Sally.
But acceptance of Jarene’s unique needs eventually happened, and Sally began seeing life in a new light. “I learnt a lot of things from this little fellow,” says Sally with a smile as she points to her daughter. One of the things Sally discovered that she wants to share with others is the importance of keeping an open mind. She wants others to know that just because Jarene cannot speak clearly doesn’t mean she is incapable of thought.
“See beyond the disability and learn to accept the person, and see the beauty that the person has instead of what she doesn’t have.”
This article is a part of our #AbleFamilies campaign in Singapore. Stay tuned for real life stories, advice and experiences from people who believe in and represent the potential of all kids. By now empowering the thousands of kids with disabilities in Singapore and supporting their parents and caregivers, we strengthen the next generation of citizens to promote a more inclusive Singapore.